Haven’t found the right one yet and wondering how you can make yourself more attractive to women? Apart from the obvious advice of “be yourself,” here are some things that women may find attractive.


Let’s face it, an attractive face is the first thing people look at, and this can form the first impression of you. Some are blessed naturally with good looks, others may have to work harder to achieve it, but it can be achieved! Of course, different women find different traits attractive but there’s no doubt that as long as you are well groomed, hygienic and taking care of yourself, then you can’t go wrong.


Having self-confidence without being conceited or arrogant can be attractive. As mentioned above, different women find different types attractive, so whether you are a gym-junkie or lean more towards the curvier side, be proud of your dad bod because self-respect and self-love are extremely enticing. There’s nothing like a bright, confident smile to catch someone’s eyes. Smiling projects an optimistic and kinder appearance, making you more approachable.


Dressing well and with flair and individuality can catch all the ladies’ eyes a mile away. Whether this means dressing in chic suits or printed t-shirts for a casual boyfriend look, as long as you wear what is comfortable to you and what you feel most happy in, people can immediately see this and appreciate your fashion.


Chivalry may be dying but having good manners will never go out of fashion. It can be something as simple as holding the door open for the ladies or offering an ear to listen; even if it starts off as platonic, once the foundations are laid down, who knows, this could lead to something more.


Who doesn’t love having a good laugh? Be witty and charming, tell jokes, make puns. No matter how silly it may be, making someone laugh can immediately put you on good terms with them. The art of humor and wit is a skill, and once you have mastered it, you can join groups of people and fit in with ease. Plus, humor is always a trait that women say attracts them the most.

It also helps if you both have similar interests and passions. This way you have a lot to talk about and share and discuss. It can then lead to attending film screenings, festivals, concerts and so on and build that friendship into something more!

These are just a few things that may attract women, and every single one is different. Don’t be disheartened if it starts off platonic that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re friend zoned. Maybe the relationship needs to take a while; you need to get to know each other more and isn’t it a nice thing if you fall for your best friend? Whether you are venturing out to your first foray into romantic relationships or moving on from an old love, it’s always good to meet new people and learn new things. Who knows, along the way in your adventures, you might just find the one!